hey to tell whoever reads my blog(:
well so my Grandfather passed away
on 17 September 2007 at around 1.30pm
at first he suffered from stroke and got admitted
into the hospital...he was quite alert
i heard from my relatives that he responded to them
i didnt visit him and then he passed away
without even seeing me and my brothers for another time
the wake was on Monday to Thursday
i only went on Wednesday and Thurday night
Tuesday's trip was cancelled last minute
the funeral wake was held under his block
at Bukit Batok and Friday,21September2007 was the day
of the Cremation and service starts at 10.45am
on thursday night i didnt go back home
went to stay over at my Aunt's house
with my cousins,we shared a bedroom
[3ppl in one and another 2 in the master bedroom;
my uncle was not around,i mean gone, so there was space]
then went there in Wallace's sports car
[a yellow Tuscani;quite sqeezy though;5ppl plus driver]
oh ya Wallace is my cousin's Boyfriend(:
then yeap all reached there held the service
sang songs,walked the casket to the junction
and we took the bus to Mandai
and we had a Touching short service
placed flowers on the casket
and it was time for the cremation
the music affected most of us to cry
it was quite sad but after a while we were okay
becasue we all knew
Ah Gong has received Jesus as his Lord and Saviour
and has gone back to the Father in Heaven
its just like taking a slow boat to another country
from you homeland you see it leaving and getting further away
but on the other side it comes closer
just like Ah Gong has gine further away from us
but he is going closer to the Father.
so im happy that he has finally recieved the Lord
because from my mom,aunties and uncle,
he was very against Christianity that
when my mom and aunties became Christians
they were chased out of the house for a period of time
but after so many years he is very Open
from the help of the Lord this has happen
Maybe this is what God has planned for us(:
and so we took the bus back and had lunch
and we soon started to clear away Ah Gong's stuff
and the adults then went to collect the ashes,
got an urn and went to find a place to put it
during that long time
only Me,Janan[my elder bro],Mitchell[my younger bro],
Shawn,Jeremy[both my cousins] and Aunty Lynette[my aunt]
were left in the house,Janan went to buy a deck of poker cards
and we started to play 'Ti Te' which changed to 'Bridge'
it was VERY fun loh
then suddenly we played some game like 7up
but in a SNAP form
the first 2 cards that either add up to 7,is a multiple of 7,
or have a 7 in it you must snap, the last one gets all the cards
oso SUPER FUNNY,especailly when we all LAGGED for a while
i was the LAGGIEST la everytime lose de
then they add in when both no. subtract to 7
wa lao SUPER UBER FUUNY la
Mitchell was plaing the computer
soon the rest of the guys joined
and i read my HARRY POTTER & the Goblet of Fire
hahaha so long still haven finish
and yea la so like that loh
then we oso tried the MAGIC EYE
where you have to 'SEE FAR' to see an illusion of sth
i cant see it !!! ARGH!!! im not good at it
MUST try the next time i go there haha
then ate dinner and went home
My Parents and Mitchell took the long MRT ride home
while Janan and Me took MRT to Woodlands
and took bus 168 home...FASTER(:
wa lao i stand beside him i feel very short loh
and from on the bus all the way home he keep toking on the phone
and i suspect its a GIRL haha can tell by the way he toks(:
wahahaha...at least mine are all CONFERENCE de loh
mixed of both GIRLS and GUYS la
and home watched GHOST WHISPERER
Nice episode...the storyline in nice loh...SERIOUS
[those we dun watch must start to watch]
and then SURVIVOR CHINA started
but i slept halfway thru
too tired cos past few nights slept late
esp wed night,wasnt i very tired on thursday in sch?
Secondary friends agree with me right?
i was quite sad lah...but soon i got over the fact
that Ah Gong has gone back to the Father(:
he is in a PEACEFUL PLACE
with only happiness there and no misery(:
and he will stay FOREVER young in a NEW BODY(:
and so yeap thats all...

Today not really much la
go out study loh...
Same old people
Jingyi,Chingting,Siewbeng plus Jiayong(:
studied abit while waiting for WEIJIE and JINGYI la
but wj in the end CANNOT haiz
so all of us started toking about someone lah
because i asked them about ytd and stuff like that
i dun feel like elaborating
because by FACTS
all of us were literally BITCHING about HIM la
which is not good loh...problems here and there
i hope this much of problems
do not affect too much on our FRIENDSHIP...
hope you can CHANGE la
if you are the right FRIEND or BOYFRIEND
please change lah...if not we cannot do anything
as according to the truth
the problem lies with you and its DIFFICULT
for us to tell you as we dun wanna see your ATTITUDE you see
therefore for the sake of everything...
Change and make things much more easier(:

oh and this was KOPED from Siewbeng's blog
and i think it REALLY MAKES SENSE...
so this is how the poem goes:

A true friend never walks away
A true friend will always stay
A true friend looks out for you

A true friend will guard your secrets
Like a precious gift
A true friend is there for you
To give you a helpful lift

A true friend tries to make you smile
Tries to replace that frown
They may not always succeed
But they rarely let you down

These arms for you are open
This heart for you does care
And when a true friend think you need them
They'll try to always be there

They'll listen to your fears
and promise not to laugh
Comfort your falling tears
and make this friendship last

They'll keep you near to their heart
and always hold you dear
Even when we're miles apart
Even when you're here

THAT'S WHAT TRUE FRIENDS ARE.


[you either KEEP friends or LOSE them;its up to you]